Mediation is a guided negotiation by an impartial 3rd party, helping couples to communicate with each other and exploring the issues which are important to them. Couples are encouraged to find ways to address their present and future needs, rather than dwell upon who may have been right or wrong in the past. The mediation process is 'without prejudice' so that on the rare occasion that a settlement is not reached, litigation may continue without either party worrying that they may have disclosed anything that the other could use in court. The mediator does not impose a decision nor make any kind of judgement - unlike a court or arbitrator, but helps the parties to find their own, acceptable solutions. This means that parties in mediation avoid the uncertainty and dissatisfaction often experienced in court when they have little choice but to accept the judgement made - which none of them may be happy with. Successful mediation will significantly reduce your costs because months or years of litigation are avoided, as are the consequent fees of lawyers and experts. Parties may refer or be referred to other advisors during the mediation if they wish.